Family members are prime perpetrators in elder abuse cases, says HelpAge India's report

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June 14, 2013
Mangalore, Jun 14: In what can be called a startling revelation, more than one fifth of the elderly population experience abuse nationally and the prime perpetrators are none other than their own people!

A nation-wide report conducted by Help Age India shows that in about 39 per cent of the cases of the elderly abuse the daughters-in-law closely followed by the sons in about 38 per cent cases.

The report goes on to reveal that the major reasons cited by the elderly  for prevalence of abuse include lack of adjustment, economic dependence of the abused or the financial dependence of the abuser, increasing longevity and the likes.

As far as metros are concerned, Hyderbad city rules the roost with 37.50 per cent of elder abuse cases while Madhurai with 63 per cent and Kanpur with 60 per cent cases remain to be in the top of the list among other cities. Jammu and Kashmir and Rajasthan have the highest share among non reported case of abuse which is 100%.

Releasing the report at a formal programme at Roshni Nilaya, Mangalore, Abhishekh Goyal, uperintendent of Police, Dakshina Kannada District, said that parents love their children and give them everything that they can.

“This sense of sacrificing their own comforts for children is seen as a culture among parents in India. However, it is rather disheartening to see reports of elder abuse happening in India,” he said and added that the police department receives many complaints about abuse by son and daughter- in-law, but when police take action, the victims themselves plead to release the accused.

“Every youth should take care of their parents at their old age and every parent should have a economic support of their own till their end,” he said.

Dr. Olinda Pereira, Director of Vishwas Trust, Mangalore, Dr. Sophia. N. Fernandes, Principal-School of Social Work Roshini Nilaya, Mangalore, Sr. Silviya Fernandes, Mother Superior, Sisters of Charity, Mangalore, Shreenath Hegde, Secretar, Abhaya Ashraya Mangalore, were present.

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December 7,2025

Mangaluru, Dec 7: A 34-year-old fruit and vegetable trader in Mangaluru has reportedly lost ₹33.1 lakh after falling victim to an online investment scam run through a fake mobile app.

Police said the scam began in September, when the victim received a link on Facebook. Clicking it connected him to a WhatsApp number, where an unidentified person introduced a high-return investment scheme and instructed him to download an app.

To build trust, the fraudster asked him to invest ₹30,000 on September 24. The trader soon received ₹34,000 as “profit,” convincing him the scheme was genuine. Over the next two months, he transferred money in multiple instalments via Google Pay and IMPS to different scanner codes and bank accounts shared by the scammers. Between September 24 and December 3, he ended up sending a total of ₹33.1 lakh.

When he later requested a refund of his investment and promised returns, the scammers demanded additional payments, claiming he needed to pay a “service tax” first. Even after he paid a small amount, no money was returned, and the scammers continued pressuring him for more.

A case has been registered at the CEN Crime Police Station.

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December 5,2025

Mangaluru: In a significant step to curb online hate and intimidation, Mangaluru City Police have registered a suo motu case against multiple Instagram accounts accused of circulating alleged provocative and threatening content.

While monitoring social media activity on Tuesday, Kankanady Town PSI Anitha Nikkam identified the Instagram handle ‘team_targetttt_900’ for posting a hate message alongside images of lethal weapons. Another account, ‘team_nagara_900’, allegedly shared a threatening post targeting activist Bharath Kumdelu, tagging additional pages such as KARAVALI-OFFICIAL.

Several other accounts — including ‘immu_bhai.fan’, ‘target_boy_900’, ‘kings_of_manglore’, ‘team_target_boys.900’, ‘arshad_mangalore’, ‘target_ka19_ullal’, ‘team_target__’, ‘troll_tigersz_900’, ‘tr_group_900’, and ‘team_target_900’ — are also under scrutiny for spreading similar inflammatory material, police said.

Authorities have urged citizens, especially young social media users, to report suspicious pages and avoid engaging with groups that glorify violence or threaten individuals. Online hate can quickly escalate into real-world harm, and police stress that sharing or promoting such content can attract legal consequences.

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December 2,2025

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Bengaluru: 'Nati koli saaru' (country chicken curry) considered one of Chief Minister Siddaramaiah’s favourites along with steaming hot idlis was on the breakfast menu at Deputy CM D K Shivakumar’s residence on Tuesday, according to official sources.

The spread also included 'nati koli' fry, vada and pongal, among other items, they said.

In an apparent show of unity, Siddaramaiah visited Shivakumar’s residence for breakfast, just days after the two leaders shared a meal amid a simmering power tussle in the state Congress.

Siddaramaiah drove to the Deputy CM’s residence in Sadashivanagar, where he was received by Shivakumar and his brother D K Suresh, who is a former Congress MP.

Suresh and Kunigal MLA H D Ranganath, a relative of Shivakumar, joined them for breakfast, which featured a mix of vegetarian and non-vegetarian dishes.

Speaking to reporters later, Siddaramaiah said Shivakumar had invited him during his visit to the CM’s residence for breakfast on Saturday.

Asked about the difference between the two meals, the chief minister said, "At his (Shivakumar’s) house it was non-veg, while at my house it was veg. He is a vegetarian, I am a non-vegetarian. I had not prepared non-veg. I told DK to get chicken from the village as you won’t get the original in Bengaluru."

Shivakumar said he had initially invited Siddaramaiah to his residence, but the CM had suggested visiting his place first and reciprocating later. "It was a vegetarian breakfast at the CM’s house on Saturday," he noted.

"Today, I invited him (the CM) to my house. He enjoyed the breakfast, which had his Mysuru taste," Shivakumar added. At this point, Siddaramaiah remarked that Shivakumar’s wife is also from Mysuru.

Saturday’s breakfast at Siddaramaiah’s official residence, held as part of efforts by the Congress high command to ease tensions in the leadership dispute between the two, reportedly included idlis and sambar, according to official sources.

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