‘Inter-state’ instead of ‘inter-caste’: Brahmin NGOs ally to find UP brides for Karnataka boys

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November 12, 2017

Mysuru, Nov 12: The shortage of “suitable brides” in the community is one of the biggest challenges faced the Brahmins in Karnataka. They fear that the inevitable inter-caste marriages may further reduce the population of ‘pure Brahmins’ in this south Indian state. This is not a fresh crisis. For decades, traditional Brahmin families in this region have been struggling to find the right match for eligible grooms, especially for puritans.

In order to address this shortage, two non-governmental organisations (NGOs) have come up with an ‘inter-state’ solution. A delegation of Kendriya Brahmana Mahasabha from UP’s Varanasi has come to Karnataka to discuss the modalities with the local Brahmins. In fact, the initiative was launched by the Mysuru-based Vipra Paraspara Sahaya Samithi led by educationist H V Rajeev, who terms it ‘Ganga-Cauvery Sammilana.’

The Varanasi delegation led by its president Kamalaksha Upadhyaya received an overwhelming response as nearly 500 parents turned up for a brainstorming session organized in Mysuru on Saturday. Interacting with the parents, Upadhyaya stated that families in Varanasi are ready to enter into a matrimonial alliance with their counterparts in Mysuru.

"Brides from Varanasi are willing to wed men engaged in the traditional occupation in Mysuru. We want these marriages to be simple, devoid of dowry demands. Besides, both the NGOs will give a guarantee to the bride's family that their daughter will be looked after properly and that there will not be any matrimonial dispute," he said. Marriage proposals will be finalised only after the horoscope or kundali matching is done, he added.

Laying emphasis on the need for such an inter-state alliance to help the young Brahmins fulfill their ‘grihastashrama (householders' stage) responsibilities, Rajeev said that due to changed social circumstances many Brahmin men are ageing as bachelors. "In Maharashtra, the Brahmin population is 11%. In Uttar Pradesh, it’s 17%. But in Karnataka, it is a minuscule 2%," he said, explaining the rationale for looking northwards for numbers.

The local parents, who took part in the session enquired on how to send marriage proposals, how the young men and women could meet each other, marriage customs etc. They also discussed cultural differences, which may become an obstacle in the later stage of a marriage. It was decided that Anuraga Matrimony, which is operating in Bengaluru and Mysuru, will provide a platform for families from both the cities over finalising proposals.

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Pratima Hegde
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Wednesday, 17 Feb 2021

We any bramin girl for my brother.30to35

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November 30,2025

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Mangaluru, Nov 30: A 22-year-old college student succumbed to her injuries at a private hospital in Mangaluru today, days after she was hit by a goods tempo while crossing a road in Padubidri.

The deceased has been identified as Preksha, a resident of Nadsalu Billitota in Padubidri. The fatal incident occurred as Preksha, who was returning home after completing her examination, attempted to cross the service road towards Mangaluru. She was struck by a goods tempo approaching from the Udupi side, causing her to fall and sustain a severe head injury.

Prompt action from local residents ensured she received immediate first aid before being rushed to a hospital in Mangaluru for specialised treatment. Despite medical efforts, she passed away while undergoing care.

Preksha was a student at Karavali College, Vamanjoor on the outskirts of Mangaluru city. The tragedy is compounded by the fact that she belonged to a financially vulnerable family, having previously lost her father. She is survived by her mother and brother.

A case related to the accident has been registered at the Padubidri police station, and an investigation is underway to determine the exact circumstances that led to the collision. The incident highlights the growing concerns over road safety, particularly on busy service roads, and serves as a tragic reminder of the human cost of traffic accidents.

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December 4,2025

Mangaluru: Chaos erupted at Mangaluru International Airport (MIA) after IndiGo flight 6E 5150, bound for Mumbai, was repeatedly delayed and ultimately cancelled, leaving around 100 passengers stranded overnight. The incident highlights the ongoing country-wide operational disruptions affecting the airline, largely due to the implementation of new Flight Duty Time Limitations (FDTL) norms for crew.

The flight was initially scheduled for 9:25 PM on Tuesday but was first postponed to 11:40 PM, then midnight, before being cancelled around 3:00 AM. Passengers expressed frustration over last-minute communication and the lack of clarity, with elderly and ailing travellers particularly affected. “Though the airline arranged food, there was no proper communication, leaving us confused,” said one family member.

An IndiGo executive at MIA cited the FDTL rules, designed to prevent pilot fatigue by limiting crew working hours, as the cause of the cancellation. While alternative arrangements, including hotel stays, were offered, about 100 passengers chose to remain at the airport, creating tension. A replacement flight was arranged but also faced delays due to the same constraints, finally departing for Mumbai around 1:45 PM on Wednesday. Passengers either flew, requested refunds, or postponed their travel.

The Mangaluru delay is part of a broader crisis for IndiGo. The airline has been forced to make “calibrated schedule adjustments”—a euphemism for widespread cancellations and delays—after stricter FDTL norms came into effect on November 1.

While an IndiGo spokesperson acknowledged unavoidable flight disruptions due to technology issues, operational requirements, and the updated crew rostering rules, the DGCA has intervened, summoning senior airline officials to explain the chaos and outline corrective measures.

The ripple effect has been felt across the country, with major hubs like Bengaluru and Mumbai reporting numerous cancellations. The Mangaluru incident underscores the systemic operational strain currently confronting India’s largest carrier, leaving passengers nationwide grappling with uncertainty and delays.

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December 7,2025

Mangaluru, Dec 7: A 34-year-old fruit and vegetable trader in Mangaluru has reportedly lost ₹33.1 lakh after falling victim to an online investment scam run through a fake mobile app.

Police said the scam began in September, when the victim received a link on Facebook. Clicking it connected him to a WhatsApp number, where an unidentified person introduced a high-return investment scheme and instructed him to download an app.

To build trust, the fraudster asked him to invest ₹30,000 on September 24. The trader soon received ₹34,000 as “profit,” convincing him the scheme was genuine. Over the next two months, he transferred money in multiple instalments via Google Pay and IMPS to different scanner codes and bank accounts shared by the scammers. Between September 24 and December 3, he ended up sending a total of ₹33.1 lakh.

When he later requested a refund of his investment and promised returns, the scammers demanded additional payments, claiming he needed to pay a “service tax” first. Even after he paid a small amount, no money was returned, and the scammers continued pressuring him for more.

A case has been registered at the CEN Crime Police Station.

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