Embrace College Life with Vision and Determination

Muhammad Abdullah Javed
June 7, 2019

Your transition from school to college is one of life's major shifts. The school days are over, the moment you got your tenth results. Those days are now being transformed into a whole new world that welcomes you with open hands of opportunities and challenges.

Opportunities and Challenges

The clear understanding of opportunities, a firm resolution to tap them and unwavering determination to visualize them will surely make you a dream student. As far challenges, don’t worry, they are other side of opportunities and a flip side of your dream. For every opportunity there is an equal reciprocal force that resists your efforts. So the harder you strive, the minimum will be the gravity of resistance. Therefore challenges are not outward things rather they are your dark side within. You remain a challenge for yourself if hard work is replaced with lethargy; and high ambitions are replaced with hopelessness. So remain cautious about these opportunities and challenges.

Stream Selection

Now, move on. The next thing you need to understand is the nature of syllabus. Well, at this point of time you might have already selected your stream of studies, as a reminder let me put it across to you in a nut shell.

At college level, leaving aside the technical streams, you get along with specific stream of subjects what you have already studied their basics during school days. Mainly Arts, Science and Commerce are the streams that are being offered at the Pre University level. So based on your inclination and future ambitions select an appropriate stream.

Be a different NEW

As early as from higher primary classes to SSLC examinations; you might have got different grades with diverse scoring patterns. Highest marks, to some extent reflect your sense of understanding. But it is also true that scoring low marks or getting grades below expectations doesn’t mean poor sense of understanding. Therefore, no matter what have you achieved so far, or how unexpected and poor results were there for you, come out of that shell and try to be a different NEW.

The college life neither encourages the good performers nor discourages the not-so-good performers, its offering has same pattern for all. The college life is a new beginning for all the students. So you need to feel fresh and firmly believe that you are entirely different one, a NEW entrant with loads of enthusiasm to do better every semester and every year. Simply relying on past good performance and staying over-confident to perform better will not be helpful. Similar is the case of those who, by some reasons couldn’t get results as expected, to feel low; all the students will share the same class and are exposed to same kind of teaching and learning methodologies. What matters here is seriousness coupled with a passion to excel, that’s it, rest of the things follow instinctively.

Teaching Style

The next thing you need to understand is the method and style of teaching at college level. Unlike school, college teaching will be more generalized in terms of expressions and elaborations. The lecturers will try their best to explain, but you need to be open and daring to ask what you haven’t understood. If not, the teaching method appears to be not that fruitful to you. So the conclusion is…teachers in schools are pretty closer whereas lecturers in college demand you to come closer.

Learning

Learning is nothing but a measurement of your success. The more you learn, the brighter will be the chances for you to excel. In college you are your own master as far effective learning is concerned. You don’t find anyone cross checking your sense or level of understanding, or frequently verifying your notes. You have to be disciplined and very diligent to get into the depth of what you are being taught.

The learning process demands double seriousness, patient hearing of the lectures coupled with their fair understand. For both listening and understanding, seriousness is pivotal. Remember, this effective learning is quite different from rote-learning, that is learning without true sense of understanding or that which you try to get by by-hearting.

Thinking beyond scoring marks is the real conception of learning. If focused on marks, understanding restricts to the total allotted marks, if not, the sense of understanding takes you to the length and breadth of the subject and paves the way to master it in true sense. It is this effective learning that enables students to be a part of research, development and exploration centers and do wonders in the field of scientific and other advancements.

Friendship

More than ten years of studies in school has facilitated you to form strong bonding of friendship with your fellow classmates. But here in college, within a couple of years you need to squeeze your experience of ten years to ensure friendship with your fellow classmates. In college, you will be exposed to almost a whole new set of students, all from different schools, backgrounds and different likings. Don't ever wait for others to make friendship with you, go ahead, introduce yourself and shake hand with everyone. This openness of yours will, for sure, boost your confidence and help mingle with one and all. Remember, mutual introduction and a good camaraderie with your college mates helps a lot in concentrating on your studies.

Personal efforts

Now, let us move a little further! You need to evolve your own strategies to stay successful, we call it as your personal, cautious and deliberate attempts, and they are as under:

Goal setting

Set your goal. This should define what actually you want to achieve in your life. Apart from medicine and engineering, there are more avenues to be highest successful. You can think of becoming a scientist, or joining civil services, or exploring new areas in the field of social sciences and humanities. Even politics need specialized intellectuals to make it a field of human and service-oriented. Remember, your goal makes your persona and help achieve what you want in your life. Without goal it’s difficult to be successful as the arrow shot from the bow without an aim will never hit its target. Whatever you decide that sets your future course of action. Be firm and determinant to set a lofty goal.

Do you know what actually inspires to set goal and keep that always in mind? There are three important aspects:

1)            Your parents and teachers expectations

2)            Your own dream of achieving big

3)            Passion for selflessly serving the country and countrymen.

Openness

Remain open to understand new ideas, new approach, new theories and new discipline. It means you need to be open to listen and make other listen what you want to say.

Hard work

Never compromise with hard work. Everything that comes your way, be it sense of understanding or achievement, it is through hard work. If you succeed in putting extra efforts over what you have been taught, it indicates that you are serious, understandable and straight on the mark of your vision. You can say hard work is a parameter to judge how far we are true to our vision and determination.

Adaptability

You may come across with many things, in and off the campus that demand your patience and a sense of adjustment. This is what we call, adaptability. Be adaptive to your college hours, friends, news ideas, and new practices and of course pleasant or unpleasant attitudes.

Again, in terms of leisure periods, in time getting of food and other relevant things may not be as good as what you have experienced in your school days. It’s your firm determination and a resolve to stand tall from the rest, will help you be adaptable to all sorts of instances.

No School Habits

Make up your mind, you are a grown up boy now, shun all those habits of school days that often put you in embarrassing situation or were quite detrimental to your good results. Like idleness, class bunking, carelessness about taking notes, disobedience of parents, talking with friends during class, careless attitude, and disrespect towards teachers etc. You should bore in mind that with these school habits, the college atmosphere will never be compatible and the dream of excelling will remain a dream.

Extra-Curricular Activities

Taking part in sports and other extra-curricular activities refreshes your mind and help sharpen cognitive skills. Don’t always remain serious about studies; give some time for your mind and heart to relax, and these activities are the best option. But you need to be very particular in avoiding excessive usage of mobile phone and spending time on social network. It’s very unfortunate that we Indians spend, on an average, almost 200 minutes per day on mobile apps (TOI - 19 Dec, 2017).

Parents’ Comfort

The college life makes you realize that you are now quite different from a school going student. Your books have changed, your route has changed, your friends are different, your study method not as usual…..all in all you are a different one. Therefore you need to be an entirely different person, very caring, very sensitive about your parents’ feelings, in short, try to be a comfort to your parents. Don’t make them worried about your waking in the morning or going to the college with regularity. Things have changed; make them more meaningful and advantageous with your positive attitudes in and off the home.

Tell your parents what you have learnt in the college; introduce them your lecturers and friends and try to stay connected with them with what you go through in college. This is particularly more important for girl students as sometimes the change of place and other things affect their routines.

Let parents feel that by admitting in college they are really relieved, you are very disciplined and have taken their worries and burden on your strong shoulders. This sense of understanding and sharing parents’ responsibilities is your biggest gift that you can offer to your parents. Let this precious gift for parents be a just beginning, with your serious studies and outstanding achievements more precious gifts will fall at their feet in the days to come.

Don’t forget

Stay in touch with your school teachers and classmates, don’t forget them. Share your experiences and learn from them.

Stay in Touch

Let me conclude with a last piece of advice. Stay connected with your Creator! Truly, His blessings are immeasurable. He expects from us to be obedient to Him, mercy to all human beings and beneficial to what He has created. There can be no greater purpose of acquisition of knowledge than realizing the Creator and knowing the responsibilities towards the country and countrymen.

With school education you have finished the basics of knowledge, now through college and, in near future, other institutes of higher learning, you are going to acquire more and more knowledge, see how best its purpose can be served. All the best, stay blessed.

The author is the Director of AJ Academy For Research and Development, Raichur, Karnataka. He can be reached at [email protected]

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Great article,…
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Monday, 10 Jun 2019

Javeed sab, your write up is worth a million dollars advice 

Dr.Shafeeq
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Monday, 10 Jun 2019

A well thought, nicely written piece of advice for youth/college students. Thank You

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April 24,2024

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Bengaluru: Former Prime Minister H D Deve Gowda on Wednesday slammed Rahul Gandhi’s "wealth redistribution promise", stating that only someone with no practical knowledge can speak like that.

 “He is dreaming of a revolution. By talking about wealth redistribution, Rahul Gandhi has insulted and humiliated two Congress Prime Ministers who brought market reforms and increased the wealth of the nation,” he added, recalling the contribution of P V Narasimha Rao and Manmohan Singh in economic liberalisation.

Accusing Gandhi of indirectly trying to say that what the two Congress Prime Ministers did was wrong, Gowda said, "He (Rahul Gandhi) has torn up their economic reforms like he had torn up an ordinance (which sought to overturn the rule that disqualifies convicted MPs and MLAs) issued by (the then) Manmohan Singh (government)."

The 90-year-old JD(S) supremo ridiculed the Congress manifesto claiming that only a party that is sure of never coming to power can make as many promises.

“The Congress has promised so many things in its manifesto. The only party that is very sure of never coming to power will promise so much,” Gowda said at a press conference here.

He said the Congress wants to turn this country 'upside down' and the promises made by it indicated that it wants to come to power 'at any cost'.

“Rahul Gandhi wants to do a wealth survey and distribute the wealth. Does he think he is a mass leader,” Deve Gowda said.

Picking up points from the Congress manifesto ‘Nyay Patra’, Gowda said Rahul Gandhi wants to 'give 30 lakh new central government jobs and run this country'.

“There are only 40 lakh sanctioned jobs. How can he create 30 lakh more jobs overnight? How much will he pay these people? Where will he employ them,” he asked.

“Only someone with no practical knowledge can speak like this. (P) Chidambaram was the manifesto committee chairman. Does he agree with Rahul Gandhi’s immature economic ideas,” Gowda said.

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New Delhi: Even though Prime Minister Narendra Modi's nasty election speech in Rajasthan's Banswara has triggered a nationwide controversy, the Election Commission has so far not taken any action. Meanwhile the Opposition bloc INDIA called the speech an attempt to divert attention from "real issues".

Addressing the people Banswara, on April 21, (Sunday) Modi openly attacked India’s Muslims, suggesting they were “infiltrators” and went on to claim that the opposition if elected would give away “mangalsutras” and “land” of those listening to his speech to them (Muslims). 

He referred to his immediate predecessor, Dr Manmohan Singh who was in office for 10 years as prime minister till 2014, and said, “Earlier, when his government was in power, he had said that Muslims have the first right on the country’s property, which means who will they collect this property and distribute it to – those who have more children, will distribute it to the infiltrators. Will the money of your hard work be given to the infiltrators? Do you approve of this?” 

Modi went on to say, “This Congress manifesto is saying that they will calculate the gold of the mothers and sisters, get information about it and then distribute it. Manmohan Singh’s government had said that Muslims have the first right on property. Brothers and sisters, these urban Naxal thoughts will not let even your mangalsutra escape, they will go this far.”

Narendra Modi and the BJP so far in their campaign trail have invoked religious faith, the Ram temple and Lord Ram multiple times, directly using it to call for people to vote for them. The Election Commission has been completely silent on the messaging via videos, tweets and other exhortations. 

Did Manmohan Singh really say that?

Modi’s claim that Dr Singh said that is not new and was refuted in 2006 itself by Singh’s PMO, when Modi had first made the false claim. The PMO had termed such remarks, “a deliberate and mischievous misinterpretation of what the Prime Minister said here yesterday at the meeting of the National Development Council, on fiscal priorities of the government.” It was termed “an avoidable controversy has been generated. The Prime Minister’s observations have also been quoted out of context in some sections of the electronic media, fuelling a baseless controversy.”

The full text of the paragraph in which the Prime Minister referred to the issue of minority empowerment to clarify the matter is as follows:

“I believe our collective priorities are clear: agriculture, irrigation and water resources, health, education, critical investment in rural infrastructure, and the essential public investment needs of general infrastructure, along with programmes for the upliftment of SC/STs, other backward classes, minorities and women and children. The component plans for Scheduled Castes and Scheduled Tribes will need to be revitalized. We will have to devise innovative plans to ensure that minorities, particularly the Muslim minority, are empowered to share equitably in the fruits of development. They must have the first claim on resources. The Centre has a myriad other responsibilities whose demands will have to be fitted within the over-all resource availability.”

The PMO’s clarification said. “it will be seen from the above that the Prime Minister’s reference to “first claim on resources” refers to all the “priority” areas listed above, including programmes for the upliftment of SCs, STs, OBCs, women and children and minorities.

Opposition reacts

Chairman, Media and Publicity department of the Congress, Pawan Khera said in a video message in a post, “We challenge the Prime Minister to show us if the word Hindu or Muslim is written anywhere in our manifesto. This kind of lightness is there in your mentality, in your political values. We have talked about justice for the youth, women, farmers, tribals, middle class and workers. Do you object to this as well?”

Khera was referring to earlier mistruths uttered by Modi about the “Muslim League” having influenced the Congress manifesto.

In Jharkhand’s Ranchi at an opposition rally, Congress president Mallikarjun Kharge is reported to have said by BBC Hindi, “If democracy and the Constitution end in the country, then the people will have nothing left. Babasaheb Ambedkar ji and Jawaharlal Nehru ji gave equal voting rights to everyone, due to which all classes got respect. But Narendra Modi wants to snatch their rights from the poor.”

B.V. Srinivas termed it as unfortunate that “this person is the Prime Minister of this country, and an even bigger tragedy is that the Election Commission of India is no longer alive.” He said that “due to the frustration of impending defeat, the Prime Minister of India is openly sowing the seeds of hatred, he is polarising by misquoting Manmohan Singh’s 18-year-old incomplete statement, But the Election Commission (Modi ka parivar) is bowing down.”

Modi’s past hate-speech

Modi, in his 12-year tenure as chief minister of Gujarat was known to have made speeches targeting the state’s minority Muslim community brazenly, terming camps where Muslims were forced to stay in after communal violence gripped the state in 2002. Frontline covered him on his Gujarat Gaurav Yatra started shortly after the violence, at a rally at Becharaji in Mehsana district in northern Gujarat, when he said, “What should we do? Run relief camps for them? Do we want to open baby-producing centres? But for certain people that means hum paanch, hamare pachees.” 

In 2017 it was time again for direct speech targeting Muslims when in February he spoke of ‘shamshaan versus kabristan’ campaigning for UP and then for Gujarat elections when the BJP had its worst performance this millennium, in a speech at Palanpur on December 10, 2017 Modi invoked a “secret meeting” to get Pakistan to fix Gujarat’s assembly polls. He said that a meeting was held at Congress leader Mani Shankar Aiyar’s residence, attended by former PM Manmohan Singh, former Vice-President Hamid Ansari, former Army Chief Deepak Kapoor and distinguished diplomats to execute the plot. Modi’s PMO faced embarrassment when in response to an RTI filed by the Congress, his office was forced to say that Modi’s campaign speech could have been based on an “informal input”.

In the only question he has answered as part of a press conference with Joe Biden on June 22, 2023, Modi was asked, “India has long prided itself as the world’s largest democracy, but there are many human rights groups who say that your government has discriminated against religious minorities and sought to silence its critics.  As you stand here in the East Room of the White House, where so many world leaders have made commitments to protecting democracy, what steps are you and your government willing to take to improve the rights of Muslims and other minorities in your country and to uphold free speech?”

In response Modi appeared visibly frazzled and denied all charges. “I’m actually really surprised that people say so.  And so, people don’t say it.  Indeed, India is a democracy.” 

The journalist was trolled online by BJP leaders and supporters to such an extent that the White House had to come out and defend her and strongly denounce the trolling and abuse.

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April 23,2024

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The Karnataka government's decision to categorise the entire Muslim community as a backward caste for reservation purposes in the state has drawn criticism from the National Commission for Backward Classes (NCBC), which said such blanket categorisation undermines the principles of social justice.

According to the data submitted by the Karnataka Backward Classes Welfare Department, all castes and communities within the Muslim religion have been enlisted as socially and educationally backward classes under Category IIB in the State List of Backward Classes.

The NCBC, during a field visit last year, examined the state's reservation policy for OBCs in educational institutions and government jobs.

"All castes/communities of Muslim religion of Karnataka are being treated as socially and educationally backward classes of citizens and listed as Muslim Caste separately under Category IIB in the State List of Backward Classes for providing them reservation in admission into educational institutions and in appointments to posts and vacancies in the services of the State for the purpose of Articles 15(4) and 16(4) of the Constitution of India," the NCBC said in a statement on Monday night.

This categorisation has led to the provision of reservation benefits for 17 socially and educationally backward castes under Category I and 19 castes under Category II-A, respectively.

The NCBC said the blanket categorisation of Muslims as a backward caste undermines the principles of social justice, particularly for the marginalised Muslim castes and communities identified as socially and educationally backward.

However, the NCBC emphasised that while there are indeed underprivileged and historically marginalised sections within the Muslim community, treating the entire religion as backward overlooks the diversity and complexities within Muslim society.

"The religion-based reservation affects and works against ethics of social justice for categorically downtrodden Muslim castes/communities and identified socially and educationally backward Muslim castes/communities under Category-I (17 Muslim castes) and Category II-A (19 Muslim castes) of State List of Backward Classes. Hence, socially and educationally backward castes/communities cannot be treated at par with an entire religion," the NCBC stated.

The NCBC also voiced concern over the impact of such reservations on the overall framework of social justice, particularly in the context of local body polls.

While Karnataka provides 32 per cent reservation to backward classes in local body elections, including Muslims, the Commission stressed the need for a nuanced approach that accounts for the diversity within these communities.

According to the 2011 Census, Muslims constitute 12.92 per cent of the population in Karnataka.

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