Notion of entitlement to sex among men should change: Writer

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September 12, 2013
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Mangalore, Sep 12: "Women's empowerment has to be coupled with change in mindset of men," said Mumbai based independent journalist, columnist and writer Kalpana Sharma.

Delivering the inaugural address at the two-day national conference on'Education and Women Empowerment' organised by St Ann's College of Education (Autonomous), Mangalore and Department of Women and Child Development, Government of Karnataka, here on Thursday, the writer said that women were still considered as a commodity in our society.

A recent UN survey among men in south and east Asia showed that the rate of incidents of physical violence on women was very high. However, the most worrying thing that came out from the survey was the reasons that they gave for having committed rape. By far the most common reason for committing a rape was sexual entitlement; that the men thought they were entitled to rape, she said, questioning this mindset among men to inflict violence on women.

Speaking on the role of families and the media in developing notions of masculinity and manhood among men and boys, she said that despite high literacy levels, the mindset of entitlement to sex among men had not changed.

“How much of it has to do with the content in education, and how girls and boys are treated in a family? Apart from the technical and legal aspects, we have to think about how boys are being brought up by families. The media is constantly reinforcing the negative qualities of feminism and machoism in both women and men. It is a challenge for educators, families and media which need to play important roles in changing this mindset in the society,” she said, adding that imparting gender education in schools would go a long way in bringing this change.

In her keynote address, Bangalore-based independent journalist and author Ammu Joseph said that education did not necessarily and automatically lead to empowerment of women.

A recent study conducted across the country showed that although violence does decrease with education, the magnitude of domestic violence was still fairly high among women with higher literacy and education. Globally, only 13 percent of news stories focus centrally on women, while in India, only 12 percent of new stories have women as the central focus.

News reports about moral policing over the past few years suggest that patriarchal mindsets were very much evident in Dakshina Kannada, with various groups presuming to enforce their out-dated notions concerning appropriate behaviour for young people, and especially young women, she said.

Talking about women and the media, she said,” Both globally and in India, many aspects of news coverage need to change if the society is to be realistically and accurately portrayed, and if women are to be proportionately and fairly represented in the media.”

Principal of the College Dr Sr Leonilla Menezes presided over the inaugural ceremony.

Deputy Director of Women and Child Welfare Department Gertrude Veigas, joint secretary of St Ann's College of Education Sr M Shalini and co-ordinator of the conference Dr A Shashikala were present on the occasion. Dr Padmavathi welcomed the gathering.

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December 3,2025

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Mangaluru, Dec 3: A group of Congress workers gathered at the Mangaluru International Airport on Wednesday to welcome AICC general secretary K C Venugopal, but the reception quickly turned into a display of support for Deputy Chief Minister D K Shivakumar.

Venugopal arrived in the city to participate in the centenary commemoration of the historic dialogue between Mahatma Gandhi and Narayana Guru. The event, organised by the Sivagiri Mutt, Varkala, in association with the Mangalore University Sri Narayana Guru Study Chair, is being held on the university’s Konaje campus.

KPCC general secretary Mithun Rai and several party workers had assembled at the airport to receive Venugopal. However, the moment he stepped out, workers began raising slogans backing Shivakumar.

The university programme will be inaugurated by Chief Minister Siddaramaiah.

This show of support comes just a day after Siddaramaiah remarked that Shivakumar would lead the government “when the high command decides.” The chief minister made the comment after a breakfast meeting at Shivakumar’s residence—another public display of camaraderie between the two leaders amid ongoing attempts by the party high command to downplay their leadership rivalry.

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December 2,2025

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Bengaluru: 'Nati koli saaru' (country chicken curry) considered one of Chief Minister Siddaramaiah’s favourites along with steaming hot idlis was on the breakfast menu at Deputy CM D K Shivakumar’s residence on Tuesday, according to official sources.

The spread also included 'nati koli' fry, vada and pongal, among other items, they said.

In an apparent show of unity, Siddaramaiah visited Shivakumar’s residence for breakfast, just days after the two leaders shared a meal amid a simmering power tussle in the state Congress.

Siddaramaiah drove to the Deputy CM’s residence in Sadashivanagar, where he was received by Shivakumar and his brother D K Suresh, who is a former Congress MP.

Suresh and Kunigal MLA H D Ranganath, a relative of Shivakumar, joined them for breakfast, which featured a mix of vegetarian and non-vegetarian dishes.

Speaking to reporters later, Siddaramaiah said Shivakumar had invited him during his visit to the CM’s residence for breakfast on Saturday.

Asked about the difference between the two meals, the chief minister said, "At his (Shivakumar’s) house it was non-veg, while at my house it was veg. He is a vegetarian, I am a non-vegetarian. I had not prepared non-veg. I told DK to get chicken from the village as you won’t get the original in Bengaluru."

Shivakumar said he had initially invited Siddaramaiah to his residence, but the CM had suggested visiting his place first and reciprocating later. "It was a vegetarian breakfast at the CM’s house on Saturday," he noted.

"Today, I invited him (the CM) to my house. He enjoyed the breakfast, which had his Mysuru taste," Shivakumar added. At this point, Siddaramaiah remarked that Shivakumar’s wife is also from Mysuru.

Saturday’s breakfast at Siddaramaiah’s official residence, held as part of efforts by the Congress high command to ease tensions in the leadership dispute between the two, reportedly included idlis and sambar, according to official sources.

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December 15,2025

Mangaluru, Dec 15: Air India Express has announced that it will resume direct flight services between Mangaluru and Muscat from March 2026, restoring an important international air link for passengers from the coastal region.

Airport authorities said the service will operate twice a week—on Sundays and Tuesdays—from March 1. The initial flights are scheduled on March 3, 8 and 10, followed by March 15 and 17, with the same operating pattern to continue thereafter. The flight duration is approximately three hours and 25 minutes.

The Mangaluru–Muscat route was earlier operated under the 2025 summer schedule, with services beginning on July 14. At that time, Air India Express had operated four flights a week before suspending the service.

Officials said the summer schedule will come into effect from March 29, after which changes in flight timings and departure schedules from Mangaluru are expected. Passengers have been advised to check the latest schedules while planning their travel.

The resumption of direct flights to Muscat is expected to significantly benefit expatriates, business travellers and others, further strengthening Mangaluru’s air connectivity with the Gulf region.

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