Notion of entitlement to sex among men should change: Writer

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September 12, 2013
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Mangalore, Sep 12: "Women's empowerment has to be coupled with change in mindset of men," said Mumbai based independent journalist, columnist and writer Kalpana Sharma.

Delivering the inaugural address at the two-day national conference on'Education and Women Empowerment' organised by St Ann's College of Education (Autonomous), Mangalore and Department of Women and Child Development, Government of Karnataka, here on Thursday, the writer said that women were still considered as a commodity in our society.

A recent UN survey among men in south and east Asia showed that the rate of incidents of physical violence on women was very high. However, the most worrying thing that came out from the survey was the reasons that they gave for having committed rape. By far the most common reason for committing a rape was sexual entitlement; that the men thought they were entitled to rape, she said, questioning this mindset among men to inflict violence on women.

Speaking on the role of families and the media in developing notions of masculinity and manhood among men and boys, she said that despite high literacy levels, the mindset of entitlement to sex among men had not changed.

“How much of it has to do with the content in education, and how girls and boys are treated in a family? Apart from the technical and legal aspects, we have to think about how boys are being brought up by families. The media is constantly reinforcing the negative qualities of feminism and machoism in both women and men. It is a challenge for educators, families and media which need to play important roles in changing this mindset in the society,” she said, adding that imparting gender education in schools would go a long way in bringing this change.

In her keynote address, Bangalore-based independent journalist and author Ammu Joseph said that education did not necessarily and automatically lead to empowerment of women.

A recent study conducted across the country showed that although violence does decrease with education, the magnitude of domestic violence was still fairly high among women with higher literacy and education. Globally, only 13 percent of news stories focus centrally on women, while in India, only 12 percent of new stories have women as the central focus.

News reports about moral policing over the past few years suggest that patriarchal mindsets were very much evident in Dakshina Kannada, with various groups presuming to enforce their out-dated notions concerning appropriate behaviour for young people, and especially young women, she said.

Talking about women and the media, she said,” Both globally and in India, many aspects of news coverage need to change if the society is to be realistically and accurately portrayed, and if women are to be proportionately and fairly represented in the media.”

Principal of the College Dr Sr Leonilla Menezes presided over the inaugural ceremony.

Deputy Director of Women and Child Welfare Department Gertrude Veigas, joint secretary of St Ann's College of Education Sr M Shalini and co-ordinator of the conference Dr A Shashikala were present on the occasion. Dr Padmavathi welcomed the gathering.

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December 4,2025

Mangaluru: Chaos erupted at Mangaluru International Airport (MIA) after IndiGo flight 6E 5150, bound for Mumbai, was repeatedly delayed and ultimately cancelled, leaving around 100 passengers stranded overnight. The incident highlights the ongoing country-wide operational disruptions affecting the airline, largely due to the implementation of new Flight Duty Time Limitations (FDTL) norms for crew.

The flight was initially scheduled for 9:25 PM on Tuesday but was first postponed to 11:40 PM, then midnight, before being cancelled around 3:00 AM. Passengers expressed frustration over last-minute communication and the lack of clarity, with elderly and ailing travellers particularly affected. “Though the airline arranged food, there was no proper communication, leaving us confused,” said one family member.

An IndiGo executive at MIA cited the FDTL rules, designed to prevent pilot fatigue by limiting crew working hours, as the cause of the cancellation. While alternative arrangements, including hotel stays, were offered, about 100 passengers chose to remain at the airport, creating tension. A replacement flight was arranged but also faced delays due to the same constraints, finally departing for Mumbai around 1:45 PM on Wednesday. Passengers either flew, requested refunds, or postponed their travel.

The Mangaluru delay is part of a broader crisis for IndiGo. The airline has been forced to make “calibrated schedule adjustments”—a euphemism for widespread cancellations and delays—after stricter FDTL norms came into effect on November 1.

While an IndiGo spokesperson acknowledged unavoidable flight disruptions due to technology issues, operational requirements, and the updated crew rostering rules, the DGCA has intervened, summoning senior airline officials to explain the chaos and outline corrective measures.

The ripple effect has been felt across the country, with major hubs like Bengaluru and Mumbai reporting numerous cancellations. The Mangaluru incident underscores the systemic operational strain currently confronting India’s largest carrier, leaving passengers nationwide grappling with uncertainty and delays.

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December 2,2025

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Udupi, Dec 2: A wave of regional pride is sweeping through Udupi district as Shagun S Verma Hegde, a talented Class 9 student from Christ King English Medium High School, Karkala, has been named the captain of the Indian National Team for the Under-15 Girls’ Volleyball Championship.

Shagun holds the unique distinction of being the sole player from Karnataka selected to represent the country in the prestigious international tournament. The championship, organized by the School Games Federation, is scheduled to take place in Shangluo, China, from December 3 to 13, where Shagun will lead the national squad.

A Remarkable Journey to the Top

Shagun’s selection is a testament to her dedication and exceptional skill on the court. Her journey included several rigorous rounds of selection:

•    She was the only player from Udupi district to qualify for the state-level selection camp.

•    Out of eight players from Karnataka who advanced to the national selection camp in Pune, Maharashtra, Shagun was the only one to secure a place in the final national squad.

•    The national camp saw participation from approximately 200 players, which was shortlisted to 23. Shagun not only made the final cut but was also ranked as the second-best player overall, solidifying her leadership role.

Shagun, who is the daughter of Sandesh Verma and Shruthiraj of Kallotte, Karkala, has trained under experienced coaches Santosh D’Souza, Jeevan D’Silva, Jairaj Poojary, and Ramesh. Her selection as the team captain has brought profound honour to her family, school, the Udupi district, and the entire state of Karnataka.

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December 3,2025

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Mangaluru, Dec 3: A group of Congress workers gathered at the Mangaluru International Airport on Wednesday to welcome AICC general secretary K C Venugopal, but the reception quickly turned into a display of support for Deputy Chief Minister D K Shivakumar.

Venugopal arrived in the city to participate in the centenary commemoration of the historic dialogue between Mahatma Gandhi and Narayana Guru. The event, organised by the Sivagiri Mutt, Varkala, in association with the Mangalore University Sri Narayana Guru Study Chair, is being held on the university’s Konaje campus.

KPCC general secretary Mithun Rai and several party workers had assembled at the airport to receive Venugopal. However, the moment he stepped out, workers began raising slogans backing Shivakumar.

The university programme will be inaugurated by Chief Minister Siddaramaiah.

This show of support comes just a day after Siddaramaiah remarked that Shivakumar would lead the government “when the high command decides.” The chief minister made the comment after a breakfast meeting at Shivakumar’s residence—another public display of camaraderie between the two leaders amid ongoing attempts by the party high command to downplay their leadership rivalry.

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